Hip Hop Don’t Luv the Kids.

This is the kinda song, I would wanna watch and enjoy,
but it should be
for black eyes only on
BET:The Ignorant Hour.

There is something about the video that I find entertaining,
but at the same time I don’t want the world to see. Like
that family reunion video you break out on Thanksgiving night
after all the long distant relatives have went to sleep or home.

Sometimes I wanna keep the
guilty pleasures/ negro dirty laundry tiiuuuuyt.

Its not the kinda song I would want my boss to catch
me bumping in my office. But then most the sh*t
I rep I can’t bump around peers or a boss.

See Beware over at Gotty’s house posted on A, Bay Bay,
and how THE VIDEO makes people like it and I agree.

I like it too.

I don’t get all high brow, like f*ck laffy taffy and what not.

My issue is with the baby at the begining.

You think its harmless right?

I say no.

It reminds me of how many of us got lil, cousins,
nieces
and nephews, bro’s and sisters,
and they know ALL the lyrics to
every f-cking 106 and
Park video but cannot write a legible, coherent paragraph.

Smell me?

Seeing as “Ah Bay Bay” is something you say in the
club, I was reminded of this girls organization that has teenage
girls going around Brooklyn this summer to raise awareness
around women getting harassed in the street. Chloe Hilliard has
an article in this weeks Voice about the organization, she reports:

The girls say that besides words, the men sometimes throw whatever they can get their hands on: cans, glass bottles, garbage cans. In Latosha’s case, it was a brick. “I was walking with some friends and this guy tired to talk to us,” said Belton, 17. “We didn’t respond and just when we got a few feet away, a brick comes flying over our heads.”

All of them agree that they get the worst treatment on Brooklyn’s busiest streets, like Fulton Street, where their offices are located.

Joanne Smith is the founder of the volunteer-run youth development organization, Girls for Gender Equity. Their main goal is to provide young girls and women with skills and self-esteem to succeed. “The reality of street harassment has to be a conversation,” Smith says. “I’m Haitian and where we are based there is a large West Indian community. generic levitra no prescription However, this is not completely true. Epimedium Sagittatum: acheter viagra pfizer Horny goat weed is a very effective weed which improves sexual abilities in men. If purchase viagra in uk you consume an alcoholic beverage, have a plan to get home after the party. It is seen as complete cialis 40 mg solution to all male sexual issues are caused by ED. In this culture there are no words to explain what sexual harassment is and why it’s wrong.”


Walking down the street.

‘Specially in the summer time you can get anything from:

1. “Excuse me Miss.”

2. “Hey Princess.” Pronounced Pa-Ren-Cess.

3. Or my favorite. “Slim, Slim, Slim.”<<---Like n*ggas
is cheering me in a race.

4. Hey Gorgeous.
I was in Bedstuy walkin’ to Dekka’s last week to Watch ALL THE SOPRANO’s in
in ONE sitting<<<---A beast.

And a jawn was like, “Ma, your beautiful” and there was a level
of sincerity and reverence in his voice that was flattering.

But. Those instances are far and few inbetween.

They be more like:

“Psst. Pssst. Psssst.”

“God Bless you Ma.”

“Can I have some of that?” <<<----If I happen to be enjoying a coldstone.

Today is the furst day of summer and the solstice.

THE LONGEST DAY OF THE YEAR.

ENJOY
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I need to call this week, “In the Gristle” because between
that Chicken and Steak post, Pac piece,
the Feminist Vixen piece<<<---thats kinda hot lol,
this post, I BEEN in the Gristle on mine.

Smell me?

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Mets vs. A’s



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Why come nobody rents
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Maybe I should just try and get TIX.

LOL.

Are there any Met’s Season
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A’s baseball is de.licious.

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Strippers, Video Vixens and Black Feminists


Jeff “Im saving and egg for him” Chang has a blog post up
about Women and Hip Hop.

The posts cites an article by Matt Birkhold on the 2005
Feminism and Hip Hop Conference
. Matt notes that:

Melyssa Ford argued that there wasn’t a problem with
her portrayal in videos because she was in control of
her image. Terrero stressed that women were portrayed
in videos in a manner that guaranteed profit for both the
director and the label.

Melyssa’s argument is dangerous:
1.) Because it does not take into consideration who Melyssa
represents, and whether or not the people that she represents
HAVE POWER.

2.) If she, in fact, has so much control OVER how her image is
used, could she CHOOSE to appear in rap videos Fully Clothed?

NEGATORY!

Her value lies in displaying the skin and the curves. And the
moment she decides that she won’t show it someone else
hungrier will come along and do it, for less CAKE to boot.

Some time the crack game remind me of the rap game.

Now M.dot is no prude. <<she greasy. We know that sex sells,
especially in a culture that has a schiozphrenic attitude
towards female sexuality.

However, just how I watch the D’ Boy’s turned
rappers try and explain away their accountability.
Im peeping the Vixens too and analyzing
how they deal with being asked, “What do you think
of your image?”

Smell me?

Terrero’s “sex sells” position was interrogated during the question-and-answer period, when Tricia Rose asked
panel participants, “If having the Klan come through your
video and lynch black folks is going to make you money,
are you going to do it?” Terrero responded “No.”
Rose followed up by saying, “We have drawn a line with race.
When will we draw a line in regards to gender?”
Terrero
responded evasively (and elicited applause) by saying
that if education were better, viewers would be equipped
to make informed viewing choices and women dancing in
videos would
peruse other options.

Jeff goes on to argue that:

Terrero’s response is problematic because it indicates
an unwillingness to take responsibility for the sexist
images he creates which are then
televised around the country to a
market that awaits subhuman,
hypersexual images of black women.

This is why Jeff is that Dude. As with his Imus/50 analysis,
Jeff argues that you cannot analyze Black Male
VIOLENCE
in rap music/pop culture, and I add for that matter, Black female
SEXUALITY in Rap music/pop culture without mentioning:

a.) The sterotypes that are being perpetuated.
b.) Whose interests, moral and/or financial, are being served
by said stereotypes.

c.) Whose pockets are caked up as a result the
SELLING
& CONSUMPTION of said VIOLENCE and SEXUALITY.


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In other stripper news, Mark Kriegel over at Fox Sports
gets The Two-Fer in with the headline:

“On the Mark: The Strip Club Epidemic”
First it was cocaine. Then it was steroids. Now it’s
clear that America’s ballplayers have fallen victim to
another insidious epidemic. Contrary to the theory that
athletes don’t like playing on artificial surfaces,
strippers have become the drug of choice for the sporting set.

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Let me just start by making a list of inferences. Based on the
title there are two inferences the reader is suppose to make.

Inference #1= That women who strip are an insidious epidemic.
a. insidious =
[1.] Intended to entrap or beguile: an insidious plan.
[2.]
Stealthily treacherous or deceitful: an insiduous enemy.
[3.] Operating or proceeding in an inconspicious or seeminly
harmless way but actually with grave effect: an insidious disease.

b. epidemic
[1]
A
ffecting many persons at the same time, and spreading
from person to person in a locality where the disease is not permanently prevalent.

Inference #2= That strippers are SO F*cking seducitve and
powerful,
that the men can’t use ANY of their faculties to
resist them. The poor helpless things. Awwwish.

Honestly. Mark sounds like a hater who ain’t had that good good

since Michael had a hit.

Feel me?

Which brings me to Strippers, Video Vixens and Power.
In
looking for a clever way to close this post, I found this article,
by a mother who read AND ANALYZED Confessions of a VV.

Hearing about this woman and her legacy I could not
help but be captivated. Not in the Ugly Bettysense, but
in the way that we women secretly “envy these type” of women.
We don’t necessarily want to be them, we just want to
learn their secrets of manipulation and control over
men….especifically the powerful men to get what they
want. We secretly crave their POWER while trying to
balance that good girl role.

“We secretly crave their power while trying to balance the
good girl role.”
I would take it step further and say, that we
want the power, but down want to be seen as a slut as we
try and get it. <<<<
Im going for the gristle this week.

AND.
Women Vixen-esque women are resented by both MEN
and WOMAN for the impact that their sexuality has ON MEN.


The author goes on to state,

“as mother of a ‘tween daughter and young son,
I find myself constantly in a battle with the Video
Vixen
. In my daily battle against peer pressure,
media images and societal rules, I am constantly
searching for ways to make sure that my daughter
and son do not define themselves by the seeming
“success” and over sexualized message created
by the Video Vixen.”

I started looking for vixen footage for this post.

I sucked into you tube.

I found this.

–AND.–

–I.–

–WAS.–

***DEAD.*** eyes. rolled in the back
of my head.

Yall it’s like simulated sex as a spectator sport.
Maybe there is more to this vixen sh*t than WE ALL KNEW.

I am going to give THIS VIDEO its OWN POST tomorrow.

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What would hip hop do w/o Strippers and Vixens?

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The Realest Sh*t I Ever Wrote

Dear Pac,

I miss you.



Its not just you per se.

But just a dude, who like me, speaks straight from the hip.

A cat who has a spine, conviction and that “oooo we” language game.

A public cat w/ this kind of persona.

You would have been 36 last Saturday.

Its like, as I get older, I realize how much of a privilage it is
to a.) be around people who are shoot from the hip and speak from their
hearts b.) actually be AROUND PEOPLE that you can trust.

Speaking of trusting you.
I have always had trouble w/your rape case stance.
I know that prosecutors/lawyers go for the deepest pockets and the
biggest names.
However, you rationale that you couldn’t say sh-t about your boys
assualting her, other wise n*ggas would thought that you were
treating her Like your gurl.
Thats THE easy out and you know it. You got sisters and a momma.
So I KNOW you KNOW BETTER.
Im a feminist Pac. I had to speak on it.

Can you believe that:
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5. Snoop gets so much Mainstream Middle America/Corporate Love?
Mr. Gin and Juice. Eh?
6. That Black people ain’t rioting over Katrina?
7. That N*ggas are STILL CAKIN’ off your death.

I could only imagine what you would have accomplished
had you survived.

More movies?
Hip Hop Theater?
More gun cases?
Married and procreated little beautiful youngins w/ Kidada?

Who knows?

What I do know is that your eyes and conviction are a lethal combination.

I look for those eyes and conviction in other people.

I look into my own eyes, and I actively cultivate my conviction.

At the end of the day.

What more can we ask for?

In serenity,

~m.dot.

One Mans Chicken is Another Mans Steak *EDIT*


God is gettin in my @ss yall.

Thursday. BL e-mailed me about my post.

AND.

Yesterday I RAN into The Graduate.[<-----Got deaded in this post]

I was like what the F-ck? IS TL ‘gon pop his CAMUS
pronouncing foune @ss up. [HE got deaded in THIS post].

Prolly not, because HE SHOULD be in bar study 🙂

On top of that, a new jawn, is creepin’ on the creep up come up.

BLOGS ARE WORDS TOO.
You see, BL never read my blog when we were together,
who KNEW that he read it now?

However, The e-mail he sent was, er, reasonable.

But there was one line that had me like this N*GGUH? HUNH?

Secondly, I sent you that email about the Hip Hop thing in an effort to perhaps initiate some contact again without it being a large production you know?

I immediatly thought, oh, so contacting a b*tch gotta be a large production? Can’t just send a email saying,

“what up m, its been a hot minute. Just checkin’ for you. Have no mal intent. We bound to run into each other, just trynna see how your summer poppin’ off.”

Easy.

As y’all know. I am one direct @ss black gurl.
In fact, in my dream last night, I was at a training at the SEC, in a small group session, and I was trying to get a word in, and this white dude kept interrupting me and the team leader let him do it. I turned into east oakland black gurl, and EVENTUALLY got my point across. Its was like, DAMMM, I gotta DO all ‘LIS, to participate!

But. I digress.

So. I began thinking about how he could perceive recconecting w/ me as being a large production.

And, hey, everyone is entitled to their perceptions. NO?

And I thought about another situation earlier this week.

ITS HARD TO ASK FOR HELP

See, I was in a pinch, and I needed some help so I called the pet detective.

Now ol boy, man, I been trying bag for a hot minute. He’s that DUDE. So he’s doing his own thing. Not really pressed.
But.
He allways takes my calls, even if its to say “lemme hit you back in 15”.
And. He knows I hate asking for help. So, in the midst of asking, he was like, hole’ up, lemme you send you this text which read,

“If I accept you as you are, I will make you worse; however if I treat you as though you are what you are capable of becoming, I help you become that”

Thats that trill. Like damn. Ol’ boy is a f*cking rydah.

So just thinking about the contrast between reconnection consitituting a”whole production” vs the “let me treat you as though you are what you are capable of becoming”. The distinction is not lost on me.

Which brings me to The Graduate.

THE GRADUATE REAPPEARS
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At Barnes and Noble. Waiting for my date.

Im in mid convo w/ this random cat, breaking down John McWorter, and out the side of my eye, I peep, brown skin and broad shoulders and swag, b*tches, swag.

And I look up and, INSTANTLY SMILE, Hi [Insert Nickname here].

So I finish my McWhorter convo, kept it moving and The Grad comes back.

He has a book in his hands. Says it was a gift.
It is a book that he is clearly buying for a woman.
The kind of book that you buy for a woman that you adore.

Thank GAWD I was cayute yesterday.
Jeans wuz tiiiyuuut. <<<--Keeps it tiiiyut. Blouse was billowey, pink and transparent<<<<--NICE! We caught up a lil bit. PEEP THIS. I stood tall. DID not give 'em the new number! So. It went okay. Was my furst time experiencing something like that in a hot minute. Dude. Did I mention that he had the nerve to be bumping
Tribe in the pod?
God he fly!

All in all, I think I made it through that
interaction w/ my dignity intact.

Speaking of acting w/ dignity, lemme speak on your
boy SJ.

ONE MANS CHICKEN IS ANOTHER MANS STEAK
So. You ever be cool with somebody. Y’all talk on the phone?

There is a subcurrent of sexy tension there, but you don’t pay it no mind.

Then they say something to you that clearly indicates that they are interested, like,

“Well, I didn’t mean it like that, if it means that it would push you away from me”?

***Cues Bonita Appleum in my head ****.

I looked at the phone, like, I think this n*gga like me?
Here WE go.

Here is the rub. Old boy is heavy into jesus. I mean, my nick name
for ’em is Sweet Jesus, *wink nod wink*.

He KNOW im greasy. In fact one of my jokes is that if I walk
into a church, the altar would catch on fire.

However, several of my core principals, according to him,
are very Christian-like. I personally think they
are Buddhist, but tomatoTO-MAH-toe.

And I have allways had love for Jesus on the strength.
So we shall see how me and SJ turns out.

As for SJ, he’s a stand up dude, he love Black
people, which is one of my biggest pre-reqs
along w/ being a b-boy and/or b-girl friendly.

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Thats a lot of personal business in one post.
But sh*t.
Yall been here for the last 6 months of M.dot’s trials and tribs,
can’t start skimpin’ now. LOL.

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