I had a turning point on my blog when I wrote in Feburary of 2010, How Dilla and Zora Helped Me Claim My Crush. Not only was the post popular, but by and large on of the reasons what I wrote it is because a reader @mistermattnash chided me for being “so political” and asked me [...]
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Blogging + Social Media + Dating As a Black Feminist
Tuesday, October 11th, 2011On Dating a Giver
Monday, July 12th, 2010^^^ #NomNomNominaction For Josephine & For T.dot. Oooh, Uh Ohhh Dropped your knot, scooped it up put in my sock… ~e. badu I turned around and I realized that I am dating a giver. Someone who never lets my IPA get too low,? who makes sure the waitress brings my water with no ice, who [...]
Musing on Steve Harvey and Black Women
Monday, May 3rd, 2010^^Thowback For Colored Girls Two things have me thinking about doing an oral history project on Black Women’s Sexuality/ Life Choices. The first is reading this line today on sexuality and race in early Philadephia in Sex and the Rabble, An Intimate History of Gender and Power in the Age of? Revolution, Philadelphia 1730-1830. “White [...]
This N*gga said I couldn’t call him a N*gga.
Saturday, February 24th, 2007So I am newly single. I got a lil e-date jawn poppin off. So me and this cat are talking, exchanging info, via email last Thursday morning, in between my evidence assignment. Peep the interaction. Me: So are you seperated as in she has a drawer fulla pannies in your bedroom and a toothbrush in [...]





